this photo is not staged.

every so often, the three boys eventually migrate towards one another. a few minutes ago, i left adam with his new favorite toys (the little people garage and city-center). the older boys were painting with their new water colors. i went to the kitchen to start on lunch, heard the older two talking to adam and came out to find them showing him how to make the city-center street move. they later started playing peek-a-boo with him because they know that makes him howl with laughter.

even though they don't take up the majority of the day, moments like these make it worth the crazy chaos of having three boys so close in age!

i am a big wimp. yesterday, i tripped coming out our front step and skinned my knee in two places as well as bending my left big toe in such a way that makes it hard for me to put any weight on it at all. kenny was on his way home from work at the time and it was all i could do from crying in front of rowan and sawyer when it happened (they were happily swiming on their swings when they heard their mama yell, "OWWWW!"). so i laughed for 30 minutes untl kenny got home and then i collapsed like a baby in his arms.

okay, not really...but i was relieved when he walked in the door so that i could stop walking around and put my leg up.

that's not what makes me a big wimp. i'm a wimp because i am blogging about it! i need your attention! it's much better this morning. it's not bright red anymore, and the toe isn't throbbing. an advil before bed last night helped relieve the throbbing in the knee. rowan keeps asking "why can't we touch your scrape?" sawyer gasps each time he sees it (i have a hard time looking at wounds. my boys saw it before i got a good look at it yesterday and sawyer's gasp made me worry. now i know that he's inherited my fear of looking at wounds because it really wasn't THAT bad to look at).

please, pity me.
 

i find this news article amusing but mostly offensive.

i can't believe this was even an issue in political circles! do people want it to be illegal to breastfeed a child on a park bench, a mall bench, or even...a restaurant?

get over it people. if you're uncomfortable with it, it's your problem, not the breastfeeding mother/child's problem. you can leave...don't ban them to the restroom.

this is one of rowan's favorite phrases. sometimes he asks me the same question over and over throughout a day or a week, and after i've answered it a few times already and he asks again, i answer him with, "you tell me, rowan." to which he responds, "no, you tell ME!"

smart kiddo.

but i digress. this morning, the boys and i went out to let the chickens out of their coop, and as we walked closer to the coop, my heart sank. the flower boxes under the front windows were torn off and thrown about, the dirt inside dumped and flowers GONE. fortunately, i heard clucking sounds from inside the coop and none of the doors were open. i got their food and threw it about for them to feed. they seemed normal, but i know they experienced some terrifying moments last night....

my question is this (you tell ME!)...was it a raccoon or a bear? i've heard of the strength of a raccoon, but can they tear off nailed-in wooden boxes with one hand (they'd have to hold onto something else to reach the boxes wince they're not on ground level)? or could it be the famous bear we keep hearing about in our woods?

what do YOU think??

happy birthday rowan tucker!

four years ago today at 9:41 pm, you were born! you instantly brought a whole new meaning to the words "amazing and awesome," to your daddy and me. and you continue to makes us incredibly proud.

we love you to the moon and back!


love,
mommy and daddy

we seem to have been swallowed up in this deck project. it's a huge project and kenny is a one-man worker. he had help the first day for two hours setting up the thingy-ma-jig that holds the deck to the house. (i know the actual word, but it's 8:29, i've been up since 5:00 this morning, and it's escaping me at the moment.) i actually helped him one day by laying the decking and putting in all the screws.* i have to finish that up eventually and will once the railing is in place.

our yard is suffering. the garden needs to be weeded, the grass needs to be cut. but we're keeping our head above water until it's finished. and it will be very soon. hopefully this weekend. hopefully.

this is the first big project where i was able to actually help out. since having kids, i do a lot of cheerleading on the sidelines of these projects. it feels good to get back at it and actually help out when adam naps and the job doesn't require a whole lot of muscle.

sorry, no pictures (mom!). i have taken a few, but the pictures don't do justice to the deck. i'll take some real pictures once it's completely finished.

so besides the deck work we've been busy entertaining the boys to keep them out of the construction area. last night, kenny found them a frog. rowan loved it. sawyer wasn't so sure. he didn't want to touch the thing, but he was very excited about trying to feed it a worm. after noticing me take a few pictures of the frog in rowan's hands, sawyer demanded i take a picture of his little "wormy." the picture below makes it look more like a cut on his finger, but really, that's the worm. and the camera actually focused on sawyer's sweet face rather than the worm. smart camera.

and what is a week or so without a picture of one of the girls? look! they're beginning to grow their crowns!!! they'll be 10 weeks old on monday.









*i worded that purposefully to make it sound as though i layed all the decking myself. i wanted you all to think i was some strong, do-it-yourself-er. but really, kenny brought each piece up to the deck and helped me with a crowbar to get the wood to lay flat. all i did was screw each piece into place. so it wasn't really a lie. and most of you won't even be reading this...so most of you will think i did do something really important in the building of this deck. besides keeping the boys from falling off of it. which really is the most important in the grand scheme of things. that and building it to make it sturdy and safe. and believe me, it's sturdy.

i am amazed daily at how smart our kids are. at such a young age! i'm convinced it's because their "filters" aren't set up yet. they hear and pay attention to everything.

two days ago, sawyer woke up with a runny nose. we have no tissues in the house. when i noticed his runny nose, i muttered something about "being out of tissues, so i'll just use toilet paper." i thought rowan was busy eating his raisin bran (yeah, we have kids that pick out raisin bran for their breakfast cereal. but that's only because i tell them to pick their favorites from the shelf on MY eye-level and to ignore the shelf at THEIR eye-level. even i can outsmart the grocery store!).

fast forward to our trip to the grocery store. i picked up what we needed and as always, i ask rowan if there is anything else we need. his answer: "tissues, mommy!"

flabberghasted by his memory, i applaud him outloud for remembering that small detail (well, small to me any way)...and forget to pick up the tissues. this is a very common occurance anymore. i am extremely forgetful since having kids. please don't mention "pregnancy brain" - i've heard it a million times.

fast forward to yesterday morning. rowan awakes with sawyer's runny nose and a low-grade fever. so does adam. three runny noses and two low-grade fevers. rowan is the only one that is bothered by this. for the first time in months, rowan takes a nap - he falls asleep of his own accord during their quiet time and wakes up inconsolable. kenny tries to help:

rowan: my nose is running! again!
kenny: that's okay...we'll just go get a tissue.
rowan (in that the-world-is-going-to-end voice): but mommy forgot to get them at the store! (more dramatic crying)

poor little guy. i think maybe he's over it today. although we DID go buy some tissues. and a natural vitamin C booster smoothie drink for all of us (i woke up with it this morning. kenny's bound to tomorrow).

today is the first day of summer! which means the end of the Spring Reading Thing. here is my original post on the books i planned to read. i got through a few of them completely and some of them part-way. i think that's pretty good for a slow-reader who has a million other things to do in her spare time (like every other participant, i'm sure).

i'm already knee-deep in my two other challenges (posted here and here). the boys and i picked up five books from the library the other day and we've read 4 of them a few times through already. rowan's favorite is a book called Farmer Will. we've read it about 54 times already. :)

here is my "Spring Reading Thing" wrap-up:

• What was the best book you read this spring?

The Mommy Manual, hands down.

• What book could you have done without? 

unfortunately, i think i'm the only one who didn't enjoy The Thirteenth Tale. all the reviews i've read of it so far have been extremely positive and i just wasn't impressed.

i also wasn't as impressed as i thought i would be with The Liturgy of Motherhood. i think i wanted more on the "motherhood" part and less on the "liturgy" lessons. i was hoping for a clever weaving of the seasonal liturgies into the busy and somewhat chaotic life of mothering (especially mothering young children). i thought it did too much liturgical teaching and not much life application.

• Did you try out a new author this spring? If so, which one, and will you be reading that author again?

yes. i'd read Flannery O'Connor already, but every other book was written by an author i hadn't previously read. i'd love to read Marilynne Robinson's Gilead after reading Housekeeping for the Spring Reading Thing.

• If there were books you didn't finish, tell us why. Did you run out of time? Realize those books weren't worth it?

i'm still reading Five Quarters of the Orange, The Contented Life, and Sacred Rythms. i just haven't had the time to finish them! but I'm enjoying them a lot. the latter two are non-fiction works and i want to savor them. i could rush through them to "finish" them but i'm enjoying them too much to rush them.

• Did you come across a book or two on other participants' lists that you're planning to add to your own to-be-read pile? Which ones?

katrina mentioned sacred parenting and i'm hoping to pick up a copy of that. and everyone seems to really love lisa samson. so i might pick up one of her books to read eventually.

• What did you learn -- about anything -- through this challenge? Maybe you learned something about yourself or your reading style, maybe you learned not to pick so many nonfiction books for a challenge, maybe you learned something from a book you read. Whatever it is, share!

from the mommy manual: "by the time a child is ready to enter school (kindergarten) it is already determined what kind of adult they're going to be." wow. that's why they call these years the "heavy investment" years.

• What was the best part of the Spring Reading Thing?

 i really liked reading all the reviews and lists of other participants.

• Would you be interested in participating in another reading challenge this fall?

absolutely! and i hope some of my blog readers will join in on the fun!

yesterday started out innocently enough. and then kenny decided it was demo-day. but this is a good thing as it means our deck will be up and ready to offer hospitality on by way of mojitos or coffees (or sippy cups with milk) in no time at all.

for today, i'll post a few "before" pictures. tomorrow perhaps some "during" pictures...and hopefully within the next few weeks, some "after" pictures.

the current "stoop/deck" that doesn't work so well for more than one person to sit on:

but it includes the boys!

it's monday morning. the boys and i are waiting for adam to wake up from his morning nap (his longest nap of the day!) and then we're headed to the library to sign up with the library summer reading club.

and then i found this (left) fun little book challenge (complete with an amazon gift certificate prize!) at a great blog. i'm looking forward to a few lazy afternoons on a blanket in the back yard with the boys...a few rainy days on a blanket in the living room...and many new adventures and stories shared. won't you join in?

i want to wish all the dads in my life a very happy father's day. we had a fantastic day except for the...devastation.

here is another picture from the series of photos i took in the garden JUST LAST NIGHT (by the way, that's mud on adam's rear in the previous post...not chicken poop. there seemed to have been a bit of confusion amongst some of my readers - ha!). this is a photo of the row of lettuce and broccoli (the broccoli is toward the back...all you can see is big, beautiful leafy greens). they were my favorite plants in the garden: a blue-ish green leaf; thick stalks and growing up as well as out.
 

this photo is 10 minutes old. taken just 25 hours after the photo above. the lettuce in the front is gone...the lettuce in the middle is mowed, and the broccoli? sticks. broken sticks. the gorgeous leaves now being digested in the belly or bellies of the three groundhogs that live in our yard.



lets take a closer look at the lack of broccoli in our garden:



they've also munched on our beans and cucumbers.

i know you are all shaking your heads as you read this thinking, "why haven't you gotten that fence we ALL told you to put up as soon as humanly possible?" why didn't we listen to all your advice? because...because...we have no excuse. we're still researching the most effective and cost-efficient (that's my new phrase) fence. and our garden is being eaten from under our noses by the burly little hogs that i have no sympathy for anymore.

another reason we haven't put up a fence yet is because the previous owner, who still lives near us, swears up and down she never needed a fence. they grew tomatoes and other veggies and never had a fence. we believed her. now we're not so sure.

i'll leave you with an image from happier times earlier today. what a great dad kenny is: he hardly got a chance to use his father's day present (a 30-year anniversary edition shakespeare ugly stick, for those readers who are also fishers) today since the two older boys seemed to want to do all the fishing. after the fishing, we ate our grilled burgers and then swam in the lake. all three boys are fishes. we couldn't get them out of the water.



HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, DADS!

since i post a lot about the gardens and gardening that we have, i get asked a lot, "how do you garden with three little boys?" first, a disclaimer: our gardening isn't extravagant. remember those perrenial gardens i post a lot about? they're mostly weeds with a few gorgeous flowers here and there. we just don't have time to weed those beds. at least not this year. we do put time into the vegetable garden.  the day we put in the garden, we worked while adam napped. the older two boys love to help us, or walk around the yard making sure all the chickens are still alive (rowan especially), or play in the sandbox. so it's easy to work with them. it wasn't so easy with a baby who wanted to be held constantly. but recently, he's learned to crawl, has taken a few steps and all he wants to do is be on the ground moving around himself.

so before baths tonight, we decided to do a bit of weeding and watering since it hadn't rained in a few days. we also spread some straw around the tomato plants and caged the rest of them. we continue to harvest leaves from the lettuce bed nearly every night for salad. the leaves seem to grow overnight from a harvesting. everything else is still growing, getting flowers or small buds of fruit.

here's our little helper. he "weeded" (or picked newly sprouted lima plants - oops!):


...and was very helpful chasing the chickens out of the garden:


and for the record...i'm the only one around here that doesn't go outside without shoes. i slip on my crocs every time i leave the house. the chickens are everywhere. and so is their poop. nobody seems to mind this but me. i love those chickens. i don't love their excrement.